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Why It’s Okay To Be Fat: Golda Poretsky at TEDxMillRiver

Watch this. Up-vote it on Youtube. Share it. <3

This video has just been bombarded in the comments by a gaggle of anti-fat, healthist fuckers. Golda presents so much important info in this talk that is being overshadowed by hate and ignorance and its such a goddamn shame. If you have a moment, and the energy, to deal with combating these trolls…please consider helping out down-voting derogatory comments, up-voting constructive ones, and adding your own love to the mix.

— 13 hours ago with 449 notes
Wait Watchers: A Woman Reverses the Gaze →

youdontlooklikeafeminist:

Memphis-based photographer Haley Morris-Cafiero has long been aware of strangers making fun of her behind her back due to her size. So aware, in fact, that she has turned the whole concept into a full-blown photography project. Titled Wait Watchers, the series consists of Morris-Cafiero’s self-portraits in public in which strangers can be seen in the background giving her strange looks and/or laughing.

The project was born when Morris-Cafiero was working on a separate project titled Something to Weigh. For one of the photos in that project, she snapped a self-portrait while sitting on some steps in Times Square.

After processing the film, she noticed that there was a man behind her making a face at her while being photographed by a female friend:

Woman Photographs Herself Receiving Strange Looks in Public waitwatcher

She noticed something similar in a photograph captured just five minutes later at a different location.

Morris-Cafiero then began setting up her camera in heavily trafficked public areas, composing the shots, setting a self-timer, and then stepping into the frame. The camera snaps a photo while she’s doing everything things (e.g. chatting on her phone or grabbing a bite to eat), and her hope is that the image also captures an interesting expression from at least one passing stranger.

I now reverse the gaze and record their reactions to me while I perform mundane tasks in public spaces. I seek out spaces that are visually interesting and geographically diverse. I try to place myself in compositions that contain feminine icons or advertisements. Otherwise, I position myself and the camera in a pool of people…and wait [#]

The images capture the gazer in a microsecond moment where they, for unknowable reasons, have a look on their face that questions my presence. Whether they are questioning my position in front of the lens or questioning my body size, the gazer appears to be visually troubled that I am in front of them [#]

Woman Photographs Herself Receiving Strange Looks in Public

Woman Photographs Herself Receiving Strange Looks in Public

Woman Photographs Herself Receiving Strange Looks in Public

Woman Photographs Herself Receiving Strange Looks in Public

Woman Photographs Herself Receiving Strange Looks in Public

Woman Photographs Herself Receiving Strange Looks in Public

Woman Photographs Herself Receiving Strange Looks in Public

Woman Photographs Herself Receiving Strange Looks in Public

Woman Photographs Herself Receiving Strange Looks in Public

You can find more photos from this series over on Haley Morris-Cafiero’s personal website.

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— 3 months ago with 3054 notes

fatbrownowl:

sparklebat:

Happy Valentine’s Day!

Hot Babe Extradonnaire 

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— 3 months ago with 730 notes
nearsightedowl:

noonejustis:

omg the first one &lt;3

Nope, still needs fatter bodies.

nearsightedowl:

noonejustis:

omg the first one <3

Nope, still needs fatter bodies.

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— 3 months ago with 130713 notes
strangeasanjles:

Just finished this dolly #dress! In love. I’ll gave to make a million more like it. #diyfashion #diy #handmade #kinderwhore #fashion #fatshion #fat #bodypositive #cute #poc #hardfemme #woc (Taken with Instagram)

strangeasanjles:

Just finished this dolly #dress! In love. I’ll gave to make a million more like it. #diyfashion #diy #handmade #kinderwhore #fashion #fatshion #fat #bodypositive #cute #poc #hardfemme #woc (Taken with Instagram)

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— 3 months ago with 65 notes
mybodypeaceofmind:

symphonyofawesomeness:

All these lovely ladies weigh 154lbs. We all carry weight differently, don’t live your life by an outdated chart. Find a number that looks and feels good.

TAKE A GOOD LOOK. WEIGHT COMES IN DIFFERENT SHAPES AND SIZES.

mybodypeaceofmind:

symphonyofawesomeness:

All these lovely ladies weigh 154lbs. We all carry weight differently, don’t live your life by an outdated chart. Find a number that looks and feels good.

TAKE A GOOD LOOK. WEIGHT COMES IN DIFFERENT SHAPES AND SIZES.

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— 3 months ago with 94287 notes
Thin privilege is not having people say you’re carrying ‘extra’ weight, like your ‘real’ body is a thin body wearing a coat made of fat or something.

thisisthinprivilege:

A fat body IS a body. The weight on it isn’t ‘extra,’ it’s a part of the body.

This disassociation of a body with its fat has to stop. It frames fat people as broken thin people, as semi-people who will someday become real people once they shed that horrid ‘extra’ weight like caterpillars turning into butterflies.

It’s gross. Stop it.

-ArteToLife

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— 3 months ago with 400 notes